A Course In Miracles (ACIM) says that “miracles are natural. When they do not occur, something has gone wrong.” ACIM goes on to say, “only what you are not giving can be lacking in any situation.” Being a student of ACIM, I’ve often wondered why there are so many miracles in some areas of my life and not in others. My business has been very successful. I have great relationships with friends and family. However, a loving and mutually reciprocal relationship seems to constantly elude me. This is a miracle that I want in my life and why am I not getting it? ACIM teaches that miracles are our birthright. In thinking about the lack of miracles in the romantic realm, I had to take a look at how I am blocking the miracle in this area as no one else is blocking it but me. Not an easy task to undertake.

The blocks to miracles in any area of my life usually start with my thought processes. Why do I have miracles with regards to my business? Well, I know that I am competent at what I do and I am vigilant to keep abundance thoughts in my mind when I think about my business. Why do I have miracles in the non-romantic relationships I have in my life? Well, I think about who I want in my inner circle and keep those individuals near and dear. Why am I not in a loving and mutually reciprocal relationship? Well, I have thoughts that do not generate miracles in this area. I think to myself that I am too old, or not good locking enough, or that no one wants to be with me because I haven’t been in a relationship for eons.

The second obstacle is how I feel about myself at any given point. Why am I having miracles in my business? Because I feel a great love for what I do and how I do it. I also feel very grateful for the abundance that I have. Why do I have miracles in my non-romantic relationships? Again, I feel gratitude for the people in my life and cherish our time together. Why don’t I have miracles in having a loving and mutually reciprocal relationship? Because I don’t feel worthy of being in one at times. I also feel fear that I don’t have what it takes to be in a loving and mutually reciprocal relationship.

The last block towards manifesting miracles in my life would be my behaviors. Why do I have miracles in my business? I act according to who I want to be with my clients. I am authentic and genuinely invested in their well-being. Why do I generate miracles in my non-romantic relationships? I invest time with them and am fully present when I am with them. Why am I not manifesting miracles in my romantic life? Because I do not behave in ways that allow this man to enter into my life sometimes. I do not always act in accordance to the man that I want to be or the man that I want to be with.

So, if you are feeling blocked in manifesting miracles in your life, take a look at how you are thinking, feeling, and behaving in ways that block that miracle from happening. I have certainly awoken to this fact by writing this post.


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